So, as someone with BPD my identity can be hard to pin down. I am influenced by everything and I take on traits I like from people or inspiration around me. I feel like a chameleon. Characters from movies or books, friends and family, famous people or even random people from social media can manipulate my … More Sense of self.
I have come to the realisation that I can finally notice some of my BPD behaviours (recovery is working yall). I have also wanted to talk about my relationships. To me friendships, relationships with partners, strangers and family, or people in general are pretty much the hardest thing for me to grasp. They leave, they wont … More That borderline love..
I see allot of posts about surviving the Christmas period when struggling with MH problems but I haven’t seen anything that really applies to Borderline personality disorder. I have put together some things that will help. Christmas is a great time of year but also a very stressful one. This time last year I was … More BPD Christmas survival.
YOU ARE UNIQUE Everyone with Borderline personality Disorder has an individual way of being. You are you. Know one else is like you. You can apply your all to new tasks and discover things many people would fear. Your individuality comes from your love of trying out new things and mixing things up. 2. OPEN MINDED Only … More The good side of BPD.
Did you eat today? Did you remember to take your meds? Have you slept well or went outside? These are questions you should ask yourself everyday. Self care is extremely important for anyone’s wellbeing. I made a cute little list of things to do when you need some self love: Eat healthy Use bath bombs … More Self care things.
Borderline personality Disorder can be the most amazing thing in the world. It can also be the absolute f*cking worst. When I feel, I feel so deeply and so intensely. Nothing in life is regulated or familiar. I end up clinging to whatever emotion that explodes from within, no matter how I came to feel it in the first place, justified … More What BPD means to me when I’m at my worst. (TW?)
My home is one thing that stresses me out the most. Chores, cleaning, clutter and having no space can make things overwhelming. Having a messy or a certain type of home can be unbearable to live In. Although allot of what I am about to say is common sense, these are things many people overlook. Tidying is a necessity. … More Happy home – healthy mind.